Today is a Market Holiday, so I don’t have work. For those keeping score at home, I started working at a financial company this fall. It’s called Blue Capital, and it’s a really amazing place to work. They routinely face all kinds of interesting computer science problems that require solutions which are both elegant in theory and efficient in practice. I’m really happy there.
Anyways, back to the task at hand. Today is Martin Luther King Jr. Day. MLK Jr. was a great civil rights leader who opened the eyes of his fellow countrymen to the injustices suffered by black Americans, particularly in the south. Was he a great man? I think, undeniably the answer to this question is ‘yes’. However, there is a more interesting question – was he a good man? The answer to that question, I think, is ‘ probably not’.
Unfortunately, I don’t have sources for a lot of this information, which is why I prefaced my answer with ‘probably.’ Firstly, he is alleged by numerous sources to have cheated on his wife. The only real web sources I could find for this point (that weren’t from hate sites) were about.com, and the straight dope, two sites I believe to be (relatively) bias free, at least when it comes to overt racism. A lot of the allegations come from illegal FBI wiretapping of King, and can’t really be trusted, but some come from King’s lifelong friend Ralph Abernathy.
Secondly, King plagiarized significant portions of his doctoral thesis, academic papers, and speeches.
Why does any of this matter? What’s the point of dragging a revered historical figure through the mud? My reasoning is that I think there’s an important distinction to be made between good men and great men. Great men are nice and well and all; they do change the world significantly, but great men also tend to suffer from narcissism and selfishness. Consider Albert Einstein – brilliant man who undeniably advanced the state of science, but also a jerk who cheated on his wife.
Why the fixation on adultery? Am I some kind of right-wing christian conservative? No, not hardly. A marriage is not just a simple contract between two people made for financial considerations – it’s a lifelong commitment with profound implications for children. Cheating on your marriage partner is probably one of the worst things you can do to them. It’s an incredibly self-centered thing to do. Not only does it cause significant emotional harm to your spouse, it causes irreparable harm to any children in the marriage. It is well documented that children do far better in stable family structures with two parents around. (Personally I don’t think it matters what gender the parents are, as long as they love and are committed to each other, but that’s an entirely different argument.) A little over two thirds of all black children born in America today are born to unwed mothers. Those children do not have the same chance at success as children born into stable, two-parent families centered around a committed relationship between two adults. Any man who would cheat on his wife, betraying that bond of trust and hurting the future of his children, is not a good role model.
Is there institutionalized racism in the world today? Absolutely. Did Martin Luther King Junior do a lot of work to fight this racism? Of course; That’s why he was a great man. However, there’s a solid difference between great men and good men. Great men do extraordinary things with their lives. They’re good for the world. What we need, however, more than great men, is good men, men who do ordinary things extraordinarily well. Men who get up every morning to go to work, who pay their taxes and give back to their communities in the small ways that they can, and who set excellent examples for their children. Given the choice between being a great man with a flawed personal life, and a good man who never accomplishes anything ‘of note’ in the world at large, I will choose to be a good man any time. I should hope you feel the same way.